Genesis 31:7 Daily Devotional & Meaning – God Suffered Him Not to Hurt Me
- Benjamin Michael Mcgreevy
- Aug 13
- 9 min read
Daily Verses Everyday! Day 189
“And your father hath deceived me, and changed my wages ten times; but God suffered him not to hurt me.”
Jacob now speaks plainly about the injustice he has endured: “And your father hath deceived me, and changed my wages ten times; but God suffered him not to hurt me.” This is one of those verses where Jacob’s pain becomes visible. He is not merely saying that Laban was difficult. He is not merely saying that the relationship became uncomfortable. He says, “your father hath deceived me.” He names the wrong. He names the pattern. He names the repeated mistreatment. Laban had not only deceived Jacob once. He had changed his wages again and again. Jacob says it happened “ten times,” showing repeated, complete, and continual unfairness.
This is important because faith does not require pretending that evil is not evil. Jacob does not say, “It was not that bad.” He does not say, “Maybe I imagined it.” He does not cover Laban’s deception with false peace. He speaks truthfully. There is a kind of spirituality that thinks being godly means never admitting when someone has wronged you. But Scripture does not teach that. The Bible gives language for injustice, betrayal, oppression, grief, and lament. The Psalms are full of cries from people who have been mistreated. Psalm 55:12-14 speaks of the pain of betrayal, not by an enemy only, but by someone close. David says, “For it was not an enemy that reproached me; then I could have borne it... But it was thou, a man mine equal, my guide, and mine acquaintance.”
Jacob’s wound was also close. This was not a stranger. This was his father-in-law. This was the father of his wives. This was the man whose household Jacob had served for years. Family wounds often cut deeply because they come from people who should have protected, loved, and dealt honestly with us. Laban had power in Jacob’s life. He had controlled the terms of Jacob’s labor. He had controlled the marriage arrangements. He had benefited from Jacob’s strength. Yet again and again, he used his position selfishly.
Jacob says Laban “changed my wages ten times.” Think about the pressure of that. Jacob was not dealing with one unfair moment. He was dealing with instability. Every time the arrangement seemed clear, Laban changed it. Every time Jacob knew what to expect, Laban shifted the terms. This is one of the ways manipulation works. A manipulative person keeps changing the ground under your feet so that you never feel secure. You work, but the reward moves. You serve, but the rules change. You try to be faithful, but the goalpost keeps shifting.
Many people understand this kind of pain. Someone may work under an unfair employer, live under a controlling family member, serve in a place where their faithfulness is used but not honored, or remain in a relationship where honesty keeps being replaced with manipulation. The details may differ, but the burden feels similar. You try to do right, yet the other person keeps changing the terms. You give your strength, yet they keep finding another way to take advantage.
But the verse does not end with Laban’s deception. Jacob says, “but God suffered him not to hurt me.” That word “but” is the turning point. Laban deceived me, but God restrained him. Laban changed my wages, but God protected me. Laban had plans, but God had authority. Laban could act unjustly, but he could not overthrow the promise of God.
This is the heart of the verse. Laban was real, but he was not ultimate. His deception was real, but it was not sovereign. His power was real, but it had limits. Jacob had been wronged, but he had not been abandoned. He had been pressed, but not destroyed. He had been cheated, but not erased. He had been manipulated, but not removed from the hand of God.
This is deeply pastoral because many believers need to know that the people who hurt them are not more powerful than God. They may have caused real damage. They may have spoken false words. They may have taken advantage. They may have changed the agreement. They may have made life painful. But they are not God. They do not hold final authority over your soul, your calling, your future, or your identity.
Psalm 118:6 says, “The Lord is on my side; I will not fear: what can man do unto me?” That does not mean man can do nothing painful. People can wound deeply. People can betray. People can lie. People can steal. People can abuse power. But they cannot defeat God’s purpose. They cannot take away what God has promised. They cannot curse what God has blessed. They cannot reach beyond the boundary God sets.
Jacob’s testimony is not that Laban never tried to hurt him. Jacob’s testimony is that God did not allow Laban to destroy him. That distinction matters. Sometimes we think God’s protection means no one will ever mistreat us. But in Scripture, God’s protection often means that even when people mistreat us, they cannot ultimately prevail over us. Joseph’s brothers sold him into slavery, but they could not stop God from raising him up in Egypt. Years later Joseph said in Genesis 50:20, “But as for you, ye thought evil against me; but God meant it unto good.” That is not a denial of evil. It is a declaration of God’s sovereignty over evil.
Jacob is saying something similar. “Laban deceived me, but God kept me. Laban changed my wages, but God preserved me. Laban tried to take advantage, but God did not allow him to have the final word.” This is the kind of testimony that can only be spoken after endurance. Jacob did not see everything clearly on day one. But now, looking back, he can recognize the hand of God.
There is also a humbling irony here. Jacob, who once deceived his father Isaac, has now been deceived by Laban. The man who tricked his father has spent years under a trickster. This does not mean every suffering in Jacob’s life is a simple punishment. We should be careful about making direct claims Scripture does not make. But the story does show us that God was shaping Jacob through painful experiences. Jacob had known deception from the side of the deceiver. Now he knows it from the side of the wounded. God was using even this hard season to mature him.
This is one of the ways God works in His people. He does not merely bless them outwardly. He changes them inwardly. Sometimes the hardest places become the places where God teaches us humility, patience, dependence, discernment, and compassion. Hebrews 12:11 says, “Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness.” God is able to bring fruit out of grief. He is able to refine His people without abandoning them.
But again, we must be clear: God’s ability to use suffering does not excuse the one who causes it. Laban is still responsible for his deception. The fact that God protected Jacob does not make Laban’s manipulation righteous. This is important for pastoral care. When someone has been hurt, we should not rush to say, “Well, God used it,” in a way that silences their pain. Jacob himself does not begin there. He first says, “your father hath deceived me.” The wrong must be named. Then he says, “but God suffered him not to hurt me.” The hope must be declared.
That is a sermon in one verse: name the wound, but do not stop at the wound. Tell the truth about Laban, but tell the greater truth about God. Yes, Laban deceived. Yes, Laban changed the wages. Yes, Laban acted unjustly. But God was there. God restrained. God preserved. God provided. God remained faithful.
For the believer, this gives strength to endure without becoming bitter. Bitterness says, “Laban has ruined everything.” Faith says, “Laban has done wrong, but God is still with me.” Bitterness says, “My future is in the hands of the one who hurt me.” Faith says, “My future is in the hands of the Lord.” Bitterness keeps replaying what was taken. Faith remembers that God is still able to restore, lead, and bless.
Romans 12:19 says, “Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.” That does not mean injustice does not matter. It means injustice matters so much that God Himself claims final judgment over it. The believer does not have to become consumed with revenge because God is a righteous judge. He sees what happened. He knows what was done. He knows what was hidden. He knows what was changed. He knows what was stolen. He knows what was endured.
For the non believer, this verse also speaks powerfully. Life will eventually show every person that human beings can be deeply unfair. People lie. People manipulate. People break trust. People use power selfishly. If your hope is only in human fairness, you will eventually be crushed by disappointment. But the Bible invites us to lift our eyes higher. There is a God who sees injustice. There is a God who restrains evil. There is a God who can preserve a person even when others act wrongly.
Yet the greatest display of this truth is found in Jesus Christ. Jacob was deceived and mistreated by Laban, but Jesus was betrayed, falsely accused, mocked, beaten, and crucified. Judas betrayed Him. The religious leaders plotted against Him. False witnesses spoke against Him. Pilate knew He was innocent, yet handed Him over. Human injustice reached its darkest point at the cross.
And yet, even there, God was not absent. Acts 2:23 says that Jesus was “delivered by the determinate counsel and foreknowledge of God,” and yet wicked hands crucified Him. That means the cross was both the place of human evil and the place of divine purpose. Men meant evil. God meant salvation. The rulers acted wickedly. God accomplished redemption.
This is the clearest picture of “but God.” Sin hated Him, but God raised Him. Men rejected Him, but God exalted Him. The grave received Him, but God did not leave Him there. Acts 2:24 says, “Whom God hath raised up, having loosed the pains of death.” Jesus was not merely preserved from suffering. He passed through suffering and conquered it. He died for sinners and rose again so that all who trust in Him might be forgiven and brought to God.
This means Christ is not distant from the deceived, the betrayed, the used, or the wounded. He knows what it is to be wronged. He knows what it is to be treated unjustly. He knows what it is to have people change toward Him, lie about Him, and profit from His pain. Hebrews 4:15 says that we have a High Priest who can be “touched with the feeling of our infirmities.” Jesus is not cold toward sufferers. He is compassionate.
And because of Christ, believers can know that suffering and injustice will not have the final word. The resurrection proves that evil does not get the last sentence. The cross looked like defeat, but it became victory. The tomb looked final, but it became empty. In the same way, Laban’s deception looked powerful, but it could not stop God’s covenant promise to Jacob.
This verse also calls us to examine ourselves. It is easy to read this passage and only identify with Jacob. But we must also ask: Have I ever acted like Laban? Have I ever changed the terms when it benefited me? Have I ever used someone’s labor without honoring them? Have I ever manipulated, controlled, or treated people as tools for my own gain? Scripture is not only a comfort to the wounded. It is also a mirror to the sinner.
If we see Laban in ourselves, the answer is not denial. The answer is repentance. Proverbs 28:13 says, “He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.” The grace of God does not only heal those who have been wronged. It also forgives and changes those who have done wrong when they turn to Him. Christ came to save sinners, not people pretending they have never been selfish, deceptive, or unjust.
So Genesis 31:7 gives us both comfort and warning. It comforts the Jacob who has been mistreated: God has not allowed Laban to destroy you. It warns the Laban in every human heart: God sees deception, and He will not ignore injustice. It teaches the believer to serve faithfully, suffer honestly, trust deeply, and leave vengeance to the Lord.
Jacob’s words are not merely a complaint. They are a testimony. “Your father deceived me, and changed my wages ten times; but God suffered him not to hurt me.” That is the testimony of a man who has learned that God’s hand is stronger than human schemes. Laban changed the wages, but God did not change His promise. Laban altered the terms, but God did not abandon His servant. Laban tried to control the outcome, but God remained Lord over the outcome.
This is still true today. People may change the agreement. God does not change His character. People may act falsely. God remains true. People may try to harm. God sets limits. People may use power unjustly. God still reigns. And in Jesus Christ, God has shown that even the greatest evil can be overcome by His greater grace.
The believer can rest there. The wounded can breathe there. The guilty can repent there. The weary can hope there. Laban may deceive, but God is faithful. Laban may change the wages, but God keeps His word. Laban may try to hurt, but God holds His people. And because Christ has died and risen, the final word over the people of God will never belong to Laban. It will belong to the Lord.
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