Genesis 31:29 Daily Devotional & Meaning – God Restrained Laban’s Hand
- Benjamin Michael Mcgreevy
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Daily Verses Everyday! Day 197
“It is in the power of my hand to do you hurt: but the God of your father spake unto me yesternight, saying, Take thou heed that thou speak not to Jacob either good or bad.”
Laban finally says the quiet part out loud. He tells Jacob, “It is in the power of my hand to do you hurt.” Up to this point, Laban has tried to sound like the injured father, the wounded grandfather, and the generous man who would have sent Jacob away with songs, tabret, and harp. But now his own words reveal the danger Jacob had feared. Laban admits that he had the power to harm Jacob.
This matters because it confirms that Jacob’s fear was not imaginary. Jacob did not leave secretly because Laban was a harmless man who only wanted a peaceful goodbye. Jacob left secretly because Laban had proven himself manipulative, deceptive, and controlling. Now Laban admits that he had the power to hurt him. That statement exposes the truth behind all the emotional language he had just used. He may have spoken of kisses, songs, and celebration, but there was also violence in his hand.
This is one of the clearest reminders that words can be used to cover motives. Laban had said, “Why did you not let me kiss my sons and daughters?” He had said he would have sent Jacob away with joy. But then he says, “It is in the power of my hand to do you hurt.” The same mouth that speaks of affection also speaks of harm. That is why discernment is necessary. Not every person who speaks tenderly has tender intentions. Not every person who claims to be hurt is innocent. Not every emotional speech is truthful.
God had already seen this. That is why He came to Laban in a dream by night and warned him, “Take thou heed that thou speak not to Jacob either good or bad.” Before Laban could act on the power in his hand, God put a boundary around him. Laban could pursue Jacob, but he could not destroy Jacob. Laban could catch up to Jacob, but he could not overrule God’s promise. Laban could speak, but even his speech was under divine restriction.
This is the heart of the verse: Laban had power, but God had authority.
Human power is real, but it is never ultimate. Laban truly had the ability to hurt Jacob. He had men with him. He had pursued for seven days. Jacob was traveling with wives, children, servants, cattle, and goods. Jacob’s household was vulnerable. Humanly speaking, Laban had the advantage. But Laban’s advantage was not sovereign. The power in Laban’s hand was still under the hand of God.
This connects strongly with what Jesus says to Pilate in John 19:11: “Thou couldest have no power at all against me, except it were given thee from above.” Pilate had earthly authority. He could sentence. He could release. He could condemn. But Jesus reminded him that even Pilate’s power was permitted power. It was not independent power. It was not ultimate power. In the same way, Laban may have had power in his hand, but that power existed under God’s authority.
That truth should humble every person who has authority over others. A parent has authority, but not ultimate authority. A husband has responsibility, but not the right to abuse. A leader has influence, but not permission to manipulate. An employer has power, but not freedom to oppress. A government has authority, but it still answers to God. Every human hand that has power is still beneath the hand of the Lord.
Proverbs 21:1 says, “The king’s heart is in the hand of the Lord, as the rivers of water: he turneth it whithersoever he will.” If God can turn the heart of a king, He can restrain the hand of Laban. Laban may have intended harm, but God turned the situation. He warned Laban in the night. He interrupted the plan. He placed fear in the heart of the pursuer before the pursuer could harm the household of promise.
This verse also shows that God protects His people in ways they may not see at first. Jacob may not have known what God had said to Laban during the night. Jacob may have seen Laban approaching and feared the worst. He may have looked at his wives, his children, his flocks, and his goods and wondered what would happen next. But before Jacob ever faced Laban, God had already dealt with Laban.
That is a beautiful truth. God is often working in places we cannot see. We see the enemy approaching, but we do not see the dream God sent. We see the accusation coming, but we do not see the restraint God placed on the accuser. We see the danger, but we do not see the boundary. Jacob could see Laban’s camp, but he could not see all the ways God had already protected him.
Psalm 121:7 and 8 says, “The Lord shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul. The Lord shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in.” Jacob needed that kind of preservation. He needed God to preserve his going out from Laban and his coming in toward Canaan. He needed protection from what was behind him and guidance toward what was ahead of him. God was faithful in both.
Laban’s words also reveal that God’s warning worked. Laban says, in effect, “I could hurt you, but God told me not to.” This is amazing because Laban is forced to acknowledge that Jacob’s God restrained him. He does not say, “I changed my mind because I am merciful.” He does not say, “I decided to be kind because I love you.” He says that the God of Jacob’s father spoke to him and warned him.
Even Laban has to admit that God intervened.
This is similar to what happens with Abimelech in Genesis 20. Abraham had said Sarah was his sister, and Abimelech took her. But God came to Abimelech in a dream and warned him not to touch her. Abimelech was not the covenant bearer, but God still spoke to him in order to protect the promise. In Genesis 31, God does the same with Laban. Laban is not the chosen line, but God speaks to him because Jacob is under covenant promise.
God is able to speak to anyone He chooses. He can warn kings. He can restrain enemies. He can trouble dreams. He can shut mouths. He can stop hands. No one is too powerful for Him to reach.
Psalm 105:14 and 15 says that God “suffered no man to do them wrong: yea, he reproved kings for their sakes; Saying, Touch not mine anointed, and do my prophets no harm.” Jacob was not perfect, but he was chosen. He had many weaknesses, but he was under promise. God had told him at Bethel, “I am with thee, and will keep thee in all places whither thou goest.” Now God proves that promise by reproving Laban for Jacob’s sake.
This does not mean Jacob never suffered. He suffered greatly under Laban for years. He was deceived, overworked, and mistreated. His household was filled with pain and rivalry. God’s protection did not mean Jacob avoided every hardship. But it did mean that Laban could not finally destroy what God had promised. God allowed Jacob to be shaped through difficulty, but He did not allow Laban to have the final word over Jacob’s life.
That is an important balance. Sometimes believers think that if God is protecting them, no one will ever hurt them. But Scripture shows something deeper. God’s people may be hurt, opposed, misunderstood, and pursued. Yet even in those things, God sets limits. Job suffered, but Satan could only go as far as God allowed. Joseph suffered betrayal and imprisonment, but God preserved him for a purpose. Israel suffered in Egypt, but Pharaoh could not stop the exodus when God’s time came. Jesus suffered the cross, but even the cross became the place of victory.
Laban could hurt Jacob only if God permitted it. And here, God did not permit it.
There is also a warning here for anyone who says, “It is in the power of my hand.” That kind of statement can reveal pride. Laban is aware of his power, but he is not humble about it. He speaks as though the ability to harm someone is worth mentioning. But having power to hurt does not mean having permission to hurt. Strength does not equal righteousness. Authority does not equal justice. The fact that someone can do something does not mean God approves of it.
This is a lesson that must be learned in every area of life. A person may have the power to wound with words, but that does not mean he has the right to speak cruelly. A parent may have the power to crush a child’s spirit, but God forbids it. A leader may have the power to make life difficult for those under him, but God sees. A spouse may know exactly how to hurt the other person, but love does not use that knowledge as a weapon. A person may have power in his hand, but God watches how that hand is used.
Proverbs 3:27 says, “Withhold not good from them to whom it is due, when it is in the power of thine hand to do it.” That is the opposite of Laban’s spirit. Laban says it is in the power of his hand to do hurt. Scripture teaches that when good is in the power of our hand, we should do good. God gives strength, influence, resources, and authority so that we may serve righteousness, not threaten others.
Laban’s statement also shows why Jacob could not safely base his obedience on Laban’s approval. If Laban had power to hurt and was willing to say so, then Jacob was right to understand that Laban’s control was dangerous. God had commanded Jacob to leave. Jacob could not wait for Laban to become safe, fair, or generous. He had to obey God. And when obedience brought confrontation, God protected him.
Acts 5:29 says, “We ought to obey God rather than men.” That does not give us permission to be rebellious or foolish, but it does show the order of loyalty. God’s command stands above human control. Jacob could not stay because Laban might be angry. He could not remain in Padanaram because Laban would feel robbed. He could not let fear of Laban’s hand overpower the word of God.
This verse also helps us understand spiritual fear correctly. Jacob had feared Laban. But now Laban fears God. That is the reversal. Jacob fled because he feared what Laban might do. But before Laban could do it, God put His fear into Laban. The fear of man began to lose power because the fear of God entered the situation.
Proverbs 29:25 says, “The fear of man bringeth a snare: but whoso putteth his trust in the Lord shall be safe.” Jacob’s fear of Laban had shaped the way he left, but God’s protection shows that Laban was not the one to fear most. The Lord was greater than Laban. The Lord could reach him. The Lord could restrain him. The Lord could make the man with power admit, “God told me not to harm you.”
The phrase “the God of your father” is also worth noticing. Laban does not say, “my God.” He says, “the God of your father.” This shows some distance between Laban and the Lord. He recognizes that God has spoken, but he still speaks of Him as belonging to Jacob’s family. This is sad because Laban had seen the blessing of God for years. He had admitted earlier that the Lord blessed him for Jacob’s sake. He had seen God’s hand on Jacob’s labor. Yet he still does not speak with the heart of a true worshiper.
A person can witness God’s blessing and still not surrender to God. A person can be warned by God and still not love God. A person can acknowledge that God exists and still resist His ways. Laban is restrained by God, but that does not mean his heart is transformed. He obeys the warning because he must, not because he has become righteous.
This should sober us. It is not enough to know that God is real. It is not enough to experience His restraint. It is not enough to speak religious language when convenient. The question is whether we worship Him, obey Him, and submit to Him as Lord. Laban knows enough to mention God, but he still speaks with pride, accusation, and possessiveness.
James 2:19 says, “Thou believest that there is one God; thou doest well: the devils also believe, and tremble.” Mere acknowledgment is not saving faith. Laban can acknowledge that God warned him, but his life still shows a heart not surrendered to God. The goal is not merely to admit that God has power. The goal is to bow before Him in repentance and obedience.
For Jacob, however, this moment must have been strengthening. The man who pursued him now confesses that God warned him. Laban’s own mouth becomes evidence of God’s protection. The enemy has to testify that God intervened. This is beautiful. Sometimes God will make even the person who opposed you admit that the Lord was involved. They may not rejoice in it, but they cannot deny it.
Romans 8:31 says, “If God be for us, who can be against us?” Again, this does not mean no one will oppose us. Laban opposed Jacob. But it means no opposition can finally defeat God’s purpose. Laban can be against Jacob, but he cannot prevail over the God who is for Jacob. The power of Laban’s hand is real, but it is limited. The power of God is unlimited.
This verse also points us forward to Christ. Laban says he has power to hurt Jacob, but God restrains him. Later, men would truly lay hands on Jesus. They would arrest Him, mock Him, beat Him, and crucify Him. Yet even there, human power was not ultimate. Jesus said no one took His life from Him, but He laid it down of Himself. The cross looked like human power winning, but it was actually the plan of God accomplishing redemption.
That means the believer’s confidence is not in the weakness of enemies, but in the sovereignty of God. Sometimes God restrains the hand, as He did with Laban. Sometimes God allows suffering, as He did with Christ, but uses it for victory. In both cases, God remains Lord. Human hands never escape divine rule.
Laban’s confession is both warning and comfort. It warns those who have power not to use it wickedly. God hears the threats. God sees the hand. God knows what people would do if He did not restrain them. It comforts those who are vulnerable because God can stand between them and the one who intends harm. God can speak in the night. God can set a boundary. God can make the pursuer pause.
Jacob’s safety was not in Laban’s kindness. Laban was not kind. Jacob’s safety was not in his own strength. He was vulnerable. Jacob’s safety was not in the distance he had traveled. Laban overtook him. Jacob’s safety was in the God who had promised to be with him.
That is the greatest truth in this verse. Laban had the power of the hand, but God had the power of the word. Laban says, “It is in the power of my hand to do you hurt,” but God had already said, “Take heed.” And God’s word was stronger than Laban’s hand.
The believer can rest in that. People may have power. Circumstances may have pressure. Enemies may have plans. Accusers may have words. But God has authority over all of it. He can restrain what we fear. He can expose what was hidden. He can protect what He has promised. He can make even Laban admit that the Lord spoke.
Laban came with the power to hurt, but God came with the power to stop him. And when God draws the line, even the strongest hand must stay behind it.
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