Genesis 32:19 Daily Devotional & Meaning – On This Manner Shall Ye Speak
Daily Verses Everyday! Day 206
“And so commanded he the second, and the third, and all that followed the droves, saying, On this manner shall ye speak unto Esau, when ye find him.”
Jacob did not give these instructions only to the first servant. He commanded the second, the third, and every servant who followed the droves to speak to Esau in the same manner. Each servant was to repeat the same message when he met Esau. The wording was not to change from one group to another, because Jacob wanted his intentions to be unmistakable. Every drove, every servant, and every message would communicate the same truth: Jacob was approaching humbly, the animals were a gift, Esau was being honored, and Jacob himself was coming behind them. This repetition shows the importance of consistency. A message becomes difficult to trust when it changes according to the speaker, the audience, or the circumstances. Jacob understood that if one servant spoke humbly but another spoke proudly, or if one described the animals as a gift while another suggested a different purpose, suspicion and confusion could arise. Peace required one clear message.
Consistency is an essential quality of Christian character. James 1:8 warns that “a double minded man is unstable in all his ways.” A person who says one thing today and another tomorrow becomes difficult to trust. If we speak of forgiveness while continuing to nurture bitterness, our message becomes confused. If we profess humility while continually seeking praise, people notice the contradiction. If we claim to follow Christ while our conduct repeatedly denies His commands, our testimony loses credibility. Jacob wanted every servant to speak according to the same instructions because the whole procession represented him. In a similar way, every part of our lives should agree with the confession that Jesus Christ is Lord.
This does not mean believers will never fail or speak imperfectly. We remain sinful people who require daily grace, correction, and repentance. Yet the general direction of our lives should not continually contradict the gospel we proclaim. Paul wrote in Philippians 1:27, “Only let your conversation be as it becometh the gospel of Christ.” The word “conversation” refers to one’s manner of life. Paul was urging the believers to live in a way that was fitting for the message they had received. The gospel declares that Christ has reconciled sinners to God, and therefore those who believe it should become people who seek peace, practice truth, forgive others, and walk humbly before the Lord.
Jacob’s repeated instructions also reveal careful leadership. He did not assume that because the first servant understood the message, everyone else would automatically know it. He spoke to the second, the third, and all who followed. Good leadership does not depend upon vague expectations. It teaches, repeats, clarifies, and equips. Jacob knew that the servants would meet Esau at different moments, and each one needed to be ready. He therefore took responsibility for preparing them.
God often uses repetition in Scripture because human beings are prone to forgetfulness. Moses repeatedly reminded Israel of God’s commandments before they entered the Promised Land. Deuteronomy 6:6–7 says, “And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: and thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children.” God’s truth was to be spoken in the home, while walking, while lying down, and while rising up. The message was repeated not because it lacked power the first time, but because the human heart quickly becomes distracted.
Peter also recognized the importance of repetition. He wrote in Second Peter 1:12, “Wherefore I will not be negligent to put you always in remembrance of these things, though ye know them.” The believers already knew the truth, but Peter did not consider it unnecessary to remind them. Spiritual maturity is not achieved merely by constantly hearing something new. It often grows through remembering, applying, and obeying truths we have heard many times before. Jacob’s servants needed one message deeply enough impressed upon them that they could repeat it faithfully under pressure.
The fact that the same message was carried by multiple servants also gave the message greater credibility. Esau would not hear one isolated statement and wonder whether the servant had misunderstood Jacob. The second servant would confirm the first, the third would confirm the second, and every following servant would testify to the same intention. Each drove became another witness that Jacob was not approaching to fight but to seek peace.
Scripture establishes the importance of confirming testimony. Deuteronomy 19:15 says, “At the mouth of two witnesses, or at the mouth of three witnesses, shall the matter be established.” Jacob’s arrangement was not a legal trial, but the principle of confirmed testimony is still visible. One messenger could have been dismissed as mistaken. Repeated messengers speaking consistently made Jacob’s peaceful purpose difficult to misunderstand.
Believers also bear a shared testimony before the world. No single Christian perfectly displays the fullness of Christ’s character, but together the church is called to confess one Lord, one faith, and one gospel. Ephesians 4:4–6 declares, “There is one body, and one Spirit,” and continues by speaking of “one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all.” Christians may differ in personality, background, spiritual gifts, culture, and calling, but the central message must remain the same. Salvation is by the grace of God through faith in Jesus Christ. Christ died for sins, was buried, rose again, and offers forgiveness and eternal life to all who repent and believe.
Paul expressed serious concern when churches altered this message. In Galatians 1:8 he warned that even if an angel from heaven preached another gospel, that false message was to be rejected. The gospel is not ours to rewrite according to the preferences of each generation. Jacob’s servants were not free to invent their own account of why the animals were being sent. They had been given a message, and faithfulness required them to deliver it accurately. Likewise, Christians are ambassadors, not authors of a new gospel. Second Corinthians 5:20 says, “Now then we are ambassadors for Christ.” An ambassador must represent the one who sent him rather than speak according to his own imagination.
The phrase “On this manner shall ye speak” emphasizes that Jacob cared not only that the servants spoke, but how they spoke. The manner of a message matters. Truth can be spoken with humility or arrogance, gentleness or cruelty, wisdom or carelessness. Jacob’s message was intended to calm anger rather than stir it. Proverbs 15:1 teaches, “A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.” The servants were to address Esau respectfully and explain Jacob’s purpose without hostility.
Christians are similarly instructed to consider the manner in which they speak. Colossians 4:6 says, “Let your speech be alway with grace, seasoned with salt.” First Peter 3:15 commands believers to be ready to give an answer for their hope “with meekness and fear.” Defending truth does not require harshness. In fact, an angry, prideful manner may obscure the beauty of the truth being defended. We must never soften the gospel to avoid offending human pride, but we should speak it with the compassion, seriousness, and humility appropriate to those who have themselves been saved by grace.
Jacob’s servants would also have to speak under potentially frightening circumstances. Esau was approaching with four hundred men, and each servant would encounter him before Jacob did. It is one thing to repeat instructions in the safety of Jacob’s camp; it is another to remember and deliver them while standing before an uncertain and possibly hostile audience. Faithfulness is proven when pressure arrives.
Many people speak confidently about obedience when obedience is easy. The true test comes when honesty may cost us, when forgiveness feels painful, when speaking of Christ may bring rejection, or when humility requires us to surrender our pride. Jesus warned His disciples that they would be brought before governors and kings, yet He assured them that the Spirit would help them speak. Matthew 10:19–20 says, “Take no thought how or what ye shall speak,” for the Spirit of the Father would speak in them. Christ was not forbidding all preparation, as Scripture elsewhere commands believers to be ready. He was teaching them not to be consumed with anxious fear, because God would remain with them in the moment of trial.
The servants also had to understand that none of them carried the whole gift alone. One led camels, another cattle, another donkeys, and others different animals from Jacob’s possessions. Each servant had a particular assignment, yet all served one purpose. This resembles the diversity of gifts within the body of Christ. First Corinthians 12 teaches that the church is one body with many members. The hand is not the foot, the eye is not the ear, and no part should despise another. Each believer has a responsibility, but all are called to serve the same Lord and advance the same gospel.
One servant may preach publicly, another may teach children, another may care for the suffering, another may give generously, another may pray faithfully, and another may serve in ways that receive little human attention. The assignments differ, but the message should remain consistent. No servant in Jacob’s procession could boast that his drove alone would reconcile the brothers. Every group formed part of the larger effort. Likewise, no believer and no ministry should behave as though God’s work depends upon them alone. Paul wrote in First Corinthians 3:6, “I have planted, Apollos watered; but God gave the increase.” Different servants perform different tasks, but God alone produces the result.
There is also a lesson here about perseverance. Esau would hear the message not once but repeatedly. Jacob did not know which drove might finally soften his brother’s anger. The first gift might surprise him. The second might make him reflect. The third might begin to persuade him that Jacob’s humility was sincere. Jacob continued sending evidence of peaceful intent.
In spiritual life, we often desire immediate results. We share the gospel once and become discouraged when a person does not believe. We pray for a relationship and grow weary when change does not occur quickly. We teach our children and wonder whether they are listening. We continue serving, writing, speaking, or helping others, yet visible fruit seems small. Galatians 6:9 encourages us, “Let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.” Faithful obedience may need to be repeated many times before its effect becomes visible.
This does not mean that repetition can force another person’s heart to change. Jacob could send every drove he owned, but only God could ultimately restrain Esau’s anger and prepare the meeting. In the same way, we cannot manipulate someone into forgiveness, repentance, or faith. We are called to speak truth, demonstrate love, and remain faithful, but the heart belongs to God. Proverbs 21:1 says, “The king’s heart is in the hand of the Lord.” If even the heart of a king is under God’s sovereign authority, then we may entrust every difficult relationship and every gospel witness to Him.
Jacob’s message also remained focused upon reconciliation. He did not instruct the servants to remind Esau of his own past failures. They were not to say, “Jacob sends this gift, but remember that you sold your birthright.” They were not to reopen every argument or shift blame. Jacob’s purpose was to communicate humility and peace. This teaches us that a sincere apology should not be weakened by counteraccusations. Statements such as “I am sorry, but you also…” often reveal that we are still more interested in defending ourselves than in owning our wrongdoing.
There may be an appropriate time to discuss the full truth of a conflict, especially when both parties have sinned. Yet when God convicts us of our own part, we should not use another person’s failure as a shield. Jesus taught in Matthew 7:5 that we must first remove the beam from our own eye before attempting to remove the mote from another’s. Jacob could not control Esau’s responsibility, but he could take responsibility for his own posture and actions.
The repetition of the message also showed that Jacob’s desire for peace was not momentary. One gift could perhaps be dismissed as an impulsive gesture. A long procession of droves, each accompanied by the same humble declaration, revealed sustained intention. In the same way, genuine repentance is demonstrated by continued faithfulness. A single apology may begin reconciliation, but changed conduct over time helps rebuild trust.
Paul described godly sorrow in Second Corinthians 7:11 by pointing to the earnestness, care, fear, desire, zeal, and clearing it produced. True repentance does not merely seek quick relief from guilt. It remains willing to do what is right after the emotional moment has passed. Jacob had organized an entire procession so that his message would be repeated through every servant. His actions supported his words.
This verse may also cause us to examine whether every area of our lives is speaking the same message. Does our conduct at home agree with our conduct at church? Does our private life agree with our public profession? Do our business practices agree with our prayers? Do the words spoken by the “second” and “third” parts of our lives confirm what the “foremost” part announces? It is possible to present a godly appearance in one setting while living very differently elsewhere.
Jesus condemned the hypocrisy of those who outwardly appeared righteous but inwardly were corrupt. Matthew 23:28 says, “Even so ye also outwardly appear righteous unto men, but within ye are full of hypocrisy and iniquity.” The answer is not merely to improve our appearance but to ask God to transform the heart. Psalm 51:6 says that God desires “truth in the inward parts.” When the heart belongs to Christ, every part of life should increasingly speak in agreement with that reality.
Ultimately, the servants’ repeated message points beyond Jacob to the unified testimony God has given concerning His Son. Throughout Scripture, prophets, apostles, promises, sacrifices, and covenants all direct attention toward Jesus Christ. Though they spoke at different times and in different circumstances, the central testimony remains consistent. Jesus said in John 5:39 that the Scriptures “testify of me.” The prophets announced His coming, John the Baptist prepared His way, the apostles proclaimed His resurrection, and the church continues to declare His gospel.
The message of reconciliation is repeated from servant to servant and generation to generation. Second Corinthians 5:19 says that God “hath committed unto us the word of reconciliation.” We are not carrying Jacob’s livestock to Esau; we are carrying the good news that peace with God has been made possible through the blood of Christ. We do not say that sinners can purchase forgiveness with gifts or good works. We declare that Christ has paid the full price and that salvation is received by grace through faith.
Jacob’s servants had to remain faithful until they found Esau. The verse says, “when ye find him.” They were not to deliver the message to one another or merely rehearse it along the road. The instruction had a destination. In the same way, the gospel is meant to be carried to people. It must move beyond private discussion among believers and reach those who do not yet know Christ. Romans 10:14 asks, “How shall they hear without a preacher?” Every Christian is not called to the same public ministry, but every believer should be willing to testify of the hope found in Jesus.
May God make us consistent servants who speak one true message with humility and grace. May our words agree with our lives, and may every part of our conduct testify that we belong to Christ. May leaders teach clearly, servants listen faithfully, and the church walk in unity around the unchanging gospel. When results are slow, may we persevere. When pressure comes, may we remain truthful. When reconciliation is needed, may we resist blame and repeatedly demonstrate sincere repentance. Above all, may we faithfully carry the word of reconciliation until those whom God places before us hear that peace with Him is available through Jesus Christ.
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