Genesis 32:18 Daily Devotional & Meaning – A Present Sent unto My Lord Esau
Daily Verses Everyday! Day 206
“Then thou shalt say, They be thy servant Jacob's; it is a present sent unto my lord Esau: and, behold, also he is behind us.”
Jacob instructed the servant to answer Esau with humility, clarity, and truth: “They be thy servant Jacob’s; it is a present sent unto my lord Esau: and, behold, also he is behind us.” Every part of this message was intentionally chosen. Jacob called himself Esau’s servant, referred to Esau as his lord, identified the animals as a gift, and made it clear that he was personally following behind them. He was not sending a present while escaping in another direction. He was preparing to face the brother whom he had wronged. This verse therefore reveals several important elements of genuine reconciliation: humility, generosity, honesty, personal responsibility, and the courage to approach the person who has been wounded.
The words “thy servant Jacob” represent a remarkable reversal. Years earlier, Isaac had blessed Jacob with words of authority over Esau. Genesis 27:29 records Isaac saying, “Let people serve thee, and nations bow down to thee: be lord over thy brethren, and let thy mother’s sons bow down to thee.” Yet Jacob did not approach Esau by demanding that this blessing be immediately recognized. He did not send a servant to say, “Jacob, your divinely appointed ruler, is coming.” Instead, he deliberately lowered himself and called himself Esau’s servant. Jacob may have been motivated partly by fear, but his language nevertheless displays the kind of humility that is necessary when seeking peace.
There are moments when a person may technically possess a right yet wisely choose not to insist upon that right. The apostle Paul explained in First Corinthians 6:7 that believers should sometimes be willing to suffer wrong rather than disgrace the name of Christ through bitter conflict. This does not mean that injustice should always remain unaddressed, nor does it mean that truth is unimportant. It means that the pursuit of peace may require us to release our demand to be treated according to our status, position, or perceived entitlement. Jacob could have emphasized the blessing he had received, but doing so would only have reopened the wound. Instead, he took the lower place.
This spirit reflects the command of Philippians 2:3: “In lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.” The supreme example is Jesus Christ, who possessed every divine right and deserved all worship, yet “made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant,” as Philippians 2:7 declares. Christ did not cease to be Lord when He became a servant. His humility did not diminish His glory; it revealed the gracious character of His glory. Likewise, humility does not mean denying the truth about ourselves or pretending that God has not given us gifts, responsibilities, or authority. Humility means refusing to use those things for selfish exaltation.
Jacob also instructed the servant to refer to Esau as “my lord.” Earlier in Jacob’s life, he had sought the position of superiority. He acquired Esau’s birthright and received Isaac’s blessing through deception. Now he was willing to address Esau with honor. Romans 12:10 commands believers, “In honour preferring one another.” This does not require dishonesty or flattery. It means that we should resist the human desire to make ourselves greater by making others smaller. Jacob was communicating that he did not approach Esau to compete, dominate, or take anything else from him. He approached with respect.
Many conflicts continue because both sides are struggling for the highest position. Each person wants to be declared completely right. Each wants the other to admit fault first. Each wants the last word, the greater honor, and the public vindication. Pride asks, “How can I win?” Humility asks, “How can I obey God and pursue peace?” Proverbs 13:10 says, “Only by pride cometh contention.” Although every disagreement is not caused solely by pride, pride frequently keeps disagreements alive long after they could have been resolved. Jacob’s language shows a man who was learning to lay down his need to exalt himself.
The servant was also to explain, “It is a present sent unto my lord Esau.” The animals were not a payment demanded by Esau, nor were they spoils taken in battle. They were a voluntary gift sent by Jacob. The Hebrew idea behind the word “present” can describe a gift, tribute, or offering. Jacob desired his possessions to communicate what words alone might not fully express. The man who had once taken from Esau was now giving to him. The one who had previously benefited at his brother’s expense was willing to surrender a significant portion of his own wealth.
A gift cannot purchase true forgiveness, and no amount of property can erase sin. Nevertheless, generosity may serve as evidence that repentance is sincere. Zacchaeus demonstrated this when he told the Lord in Luke 19:8, “If I have taken any thing from any man by false accusation, I restore him fourfold.” Zacchaeus was not buying salvation. His willingness to make restitution showed that his encounter with Christ had changed his relationship with money and with those he had wronged. Genuine repentance does not ask only, “How can I be forgiven?” It also asks, “How can I repair what I damaged, so far as it is possible?”
There are injuries that cannot be repaired materially. Money cannot restore lost years, remove painful memories, or instantly rebuild trust. Yet repentance should still be willing to bear a cost. That cost may involve returning what was taken, correcting a false report, surrendering an advantage, accepting consequences, changing a destructive pattern, or patiently demonstrating faithfulness over time. An apology that costs nothing and changes nothing may be little more than an effort to escape discomfort. John the Baptist said in Matthew 3:8, “Bring forth therefore fruits meet for repentance.” The fruit does not create repentance, but it reveals that repentance is real.
Jacob’s present also communicated that he was no longer coming to take. Esau may have wondered whether Jacob’s return threatened his household, land, or position. Jacob had left Canaan after receiving the blessing associated with the covenant inheritance. Now he was returning with wives, children, servants, and enormous wealth. Esau could easily have interpreted Jacob’s return as an invasion or a new attempt to gain power. The gift therefore carried a message: Jacob was approaching as a giver rather than a taker.
This is a meaningful sign of spiritual maturity. Sinful human nature continually asks what it can gain from others. It evaluates relationships according to personal benefit. It seeks attention, influence, comfort, possessions, and recognition. Christlike love, however, asks what it can give. Acts 20:35 records the words of Jesus: “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Jacob’s gift did not prove that all selfishness had disappeared from his heart, but it showed movement away from the grasping spirit that had characterized much of his earlier life.
The final part of the message is especially important: “And, behold, also he is behind us.” Jacob did not send the gift in his place permanently. He wanted Esau to know that he himself was coming. The servants would arrive first, and the animals would pass before Esau, but Jacob would eventually appear. He was not attempting to hide forever behind possessions, messengers, or carefully arranged words. He was preparing to face his brother personally.
This is one of the clearest signs of responsibility in the verse. Jacob could have sent the animals and then fled. He could have hoped the gift would satisfy Esau without requiring a face-to-face encounter. Instead, the message assured Esau that Jacob was behind the servants. He was coming to answer for himself. Genuine reconciliation often requires personal presence. There are times when a letter, gift, or message is appropriate, especially when it prepares the way for a difficult conversation. Yet those things should not always become substitutes for personally acknowledging the wrong that has been done.
It is often easier to send a gift than to say, “I sinned against you.” It is easier to communicate through another person than to look into the eyes of someone we have hurt. It is easier to speak generally about mistakes than to name a specific offense. Jacob’s gifts were valuable, but the most difficult offering would be Jacob himself. He would have to step from behind the droves, bow before Esau, and place himself at the mercy of his brother’s response.
David understood the personal nature of confession when he prayed in Psalm 51:3, “For I acknowledge my transgressions: and my sin is ever before me.” He did not blame Bathsheba, the pressures of leadership, the temptations of palace life, or the failures of those around him. He took ownership of his sin before God. Similarly, the prodigal son prepared to say to his father in Luke 15:18, “Father, I have sinned against heaven, and before thee.” True repentance speaks personally. It does not merely say, “Mistakes were made.” It says, “I sinned.”
The words “he is behind us” also meant that Jacob was willing to be associated with the gift and the message. The servants were not acting independently. Everything they carried had come from Jacob, and every word they spoke had been commanded by him. Jacob accepted ownership of the entire attempt at reconciliation. Good leadership requires this kind of accountability. A leader should not send others into difficulty and then deny involvement if the outcome becomes uncomfortable. Jacob placed his name upon the gift and assured Esau that he was following.
Spiritually, this phrase also reminds us that our words and actions should be supported by our presence and character. It is possible to send religious messages ahead of us while living in a manner that contradicts them. We may speak of love while acting harshly, proclaim humility while seeking praise, or talk about forgiveness while holding bitterness. Eventually, our lives arrive behind our words. People begin to see whether the conduct that follows matches the profession that went before.
Paul urged the Philippians in Philippians 1:27, “Only let your conversation be as it becometh the gospel of Christ.” The word “conversation” refers to the manner of life. The gospel message we proclaim should be followed by a life that does not deny it. We will never represent Christ perfectly, but we should desire our actions to confirm rather than contradict our testimony. Jacob’s gift announced humility and peace; Jacob himself would soon have to appear and live according to that announcement.
There is another beautiful truth in the fact that the gift went before Jacob. Proverbs 18:16 says, “A man’s gift maketh room for him, and bringeth him before great men.” Jacob hoped the present would prepare the way for his arrival. Yet believers must be careful not to confuse this human attempt at reconciliation with the way we are reconciled to God. We cannot send our possessions, good works, charitable deeds, prayers, or religious achievements ahead of us to purchase God’s acceptance. Isaiah 64:6 teaches that even “all our righteousnesses are as filthy rags” when offered as the basis of our standing before the holy God.
Our acceptance before God depends entirely upon Jesus Christ. He is not a gift we provide to God; He is the gift God provided for us. John 3:16 declares, “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son.” Jacob sent animals to an offended brother, but God sent His Son for offending sinners. Romans 5:10 says, “When we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son.” Jacob was the guilty brother approaching the one he had wronged. In the gospel, we are the guilty ones, yet God Himself took the initiative to provide reconciliation.
Christ also came personally. God did not merely send earthly treasures, written instructions, or angelic messengers and remain distant from our suffering. John 1:14 says, “And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us.” Jesus entered the world He created, lived among sinners, bore our griefs, and carried our sins to the cross. He did not say from heaven, “Peace is available,” without coming to accomplish that peace. Colossians 1:20 declares that He made peace “through the blood of his cross.”
Jacob’s declaration that he was behind the gift also carried an element of vulnerability. Esau now knew Jacob was coming. Jacob could no longer remain hidden. Humility always involves a degree of vulnerability because it surrenders the illusion of control. When we confess wrongdoing, we cannot control how the other person will respond. They may forgive quickly, require time, express pain, or refuse reconciliation. Romans 12:18 wisely says, “If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.” We are responsible for what lies within us, but we cannot force peace upon another person.
Jacob could offer the gift, speak respectfully, and approach Esau humbly, but he could not command Esau’s heart. This is where faith becomes necessary. We must obey God in the steps He gives us and entrust the outcome to Him. First Peter 5:6 says, “Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time.” Humility before another person must ultimately rest upon humility before God. We can take the lower place because our identity and security are held by Him.
The message delivered by the servant therefore reveals a changed posture in Jacob. He was still afraid and still imperfect, but he was moving toward truth rather than deception, generosity rather than grasping, humility rather than self-exaltation, and personal responsibility rather than avoidance. God’s work in a person’s life is often seen not in instant perfection but in a new direction. Jacob’s old tendencies had not entirely disappeared, yet grace was teaching him to walk differently.
May the Lord give us the same willingness to humble ourselves when peace requires it. May we never attempt to purchase forgiveness, but may our repentance produce visible fruit. May we be willing to make restitution where possible, surrender pride, and personally face the consequences of our actions. May our lives follow behind our words and confirm the faith we profess. Above all, may we remember that our peace with God rests not in the gifts we bring, but in the gift He has given—the Lord Jesus Christ, who humbled Himself, came personally, and offered His life so that sinners might be reconciled to God.
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